It is not what I thought it was. It's a movie for someone who has experienced love, hurt, hope, deeper pain.. Love.
Each of us has a dark spot and a soft spot. Situations can bring out the best in us or the beast in us.
Anastasia was intrigued; insecure; submissive; dominant- in love.
Christian was insecure; in demand; intriguing; dominant; submissive- in love.
Sometimes we have to put a wall, not to just hide the not-so-pleasant past, but also because we hoped that someone will be brave enough to break that wall and be able to see us, embrace us as as we are.
You have to be willing to be hurt to understand love; and when you're there you'll know when to hit the red button.
She was willing to take it in, to be punished- to assure herself that it's not just about her heart racing. She wanted to understand him, and herself.
There are situations where you have to be someone you're not just to know yourself better. Even if you know that breaking that wall, entering the shades, may mean both pain and pleasure- you still choose to take it because the person you love is more important than his past.
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