Rumors

Rumors.This morning,  I saw one of my agents before and so I greeted him and told him it's been a while we have not talked. I remember him as someone who's stubborn but is loyak when you get his buy-in. He is an agent that your leadership will really be tested, I am just glad that despite of everything i gained his trust and respect- so he said. What made me laugh was when he told me that he has been hearing rumors about me, preparing for the corporate ladder. I cannot help but laugh! where did they get that idea? How were they abe to connect things? It was not in my plans so I don't think that I have shown desperation in climbing the top. Sure, I have plans. but plans of how to have the best team in the account. I know that topping all the other teams in rank is not just the parameter of having the best team. I have the best team cause they understand me and I understand them, we are in the same direction and the by-product is our numbers. Although lately, I have some doubts on that when my friend and my agent approached me of how she feels about the account. I might have been too fierce in fighting that I forgot my principle in leading- to lead with heart. I have seen leaders whom I despise because all they blab is about numbers. I mean, ok your rating is good, you make a lot of money when you  get good ratings, but how are you with the team? Will they say that " I was scolded because she just wants the best in me?"  I have to be reminded lately that i might have lost focused, although I know in my heart that all I wanted is for them to use that skill and abilities they have to the best it should be. I always praise God for giving me the chance to live, to make up for those times when I gave up the battle before even trying it because of insecurities. i feel guilty when I know I could do more but just did what was 'OK'.

That 'rumor' maybe the product of the hard work I put into the team. The moment I knew that I will be handling the agents I have up to this rotation, a little over a year ago, I said I should be the best at all times because these agents are the best in their field. I don't want them walking out on me because they remain as where they are. My goal was that for them to say, " I have improved!". Without an effort, I am reaping a good harvest now, but this is not all just me. To God be the glory. Am I too hard on them? I doubt. Am I too harsh on myself? Not close. These past days have been a puzzle for me. They are everywhere and waited to be connected by the right person, at the right time. Of all these,God has always been there. I prayed for patience and wisdom- he tested me in handling finances and planted seeds of ambitions in me. I prayed to be the best leader that I can be- He allowed turmoils to test my courage and measured my faith; I am not understanding what is happening around me as of this time but I have not the slightest doubt that God is talking to me, answering my prayers. "Me moment' is still something I treasure a lot. It's madness time, when I ask uestions and answered it myslef; when I envisioned taliking  to Him and getting some answers. Others cry in their meditation, I argue and discuss things with God. Guess He knows me better than anyone, even myself. I have to hear reasons and be heard out. This is Our bonding moment.

Whatever that rumor may lead, I leave it all up to HIm. I am not dismissing it. It's just that I know I have a lot of things to work on- personality wise. I don't want to be the 'yes' leader, but I don't want to be the 'argumentative' one either. What i want? I think I am still on the process of knowing it, then only will I become an effective leader.